My upbringing wasn’t the most stable of environments. I bounced around a lot, often to less than glamorous neighborhoods. My family wasn’t a traditional, nuclear or even agreeable one at times. And many of my childhood friends have gone down unfortunate paths.
Yet, despite all of this, I graduated from a prestigious high school in Cleveland, Ohio with honors. Just last year, I graduated from
Statistically speaking, black males lag behind all other demographics in terms of high school graduation and college enrollment and graduation. In a new study conducted by Dr. Shaun Harper, the University of Pennsylvania professor analyzes and seeks to explain this disturbing reality. He interviewed and focused on several high achieving, black male students. In a world that often depicts black men as “as lazy, unmotivated, underprepared for college, intellectually incompetent, and disengaged,” these students debunked the stereotype. Each proved that, given the proper education, attention, resources and family support, everyone, despite race or gender, can achieve great things.
This hits home for me. Despite my upbringing, my mother, grandmother, aunts and uncles played an important factor in my academic achievement. They all wanted me to do something that they didn’t do. As a result, I was the first person in my generation, (and second ever in my family) to graduate from college.
In his State of the Union address, President Obama said “a great teacher can offer an escape from poverty to the child who dreams beyond his circumstance.”
The President’s statement describes me. I aim to be an example for the discouraged and downtrodden to follow. No matter the obstacles, follow your dreams. It may not always be easy, but stick with it. The things you want the most are always worth fighting for. As my grandmother always says: “Nothing beats a failure but a try.”